Sex and Sexuality

When not saying “no” doesn’t mean saying “yes”

I wanna start off by saying I'm not exactly sure what I'm chalking this experience up to.. From the people I've told, I've gotten reactions that range from "it was a misunderstanding, move on" to "report him, it was sexual assault." And it is honestly hard to really pinpoint where I feel like I fall… Continue reading When not saying “no” doesn’t mean saying “yes”

The List

Drunk texting for beginners

Hold onto your hats, ladies and gentlemen, because your girl got drunk for the first time and it was lit. Okay, I don't actually say "lit" very often, but this seems like a reasonable event to use the word. Now, forgive me, because I actually did this like 4 weeks ago and haven't had the… Continue reading Drunk texting for beginners

Self Love

Why I wear lingerie

Let’s be clear here: I wear lingerie for me, and only me. Now, if I happen to be in the presence of an attractive other person, and that person enjoys seeing me in lingerie, then I guess that’s a bonus for them. But I did not put on this lace bodysuit so a boy could… Continue reading Why I wear lingerie


Dating Mr. Darcy. Twice.

I think I'm falling for a boy. For the purpose of anonymity we are going to refer to him as Mr. Darcy (which is the most cliché fictional stand-in for a lover ever, but for the sake of getting this post up, we're going to pretend I'm creative). Techncally I'm not actually dating Mr. Darcy… Continue reading Dating Mr. Darcy. Twice.

The List

Sex toys and scares

Okay, get comfy, 'cause this is one heck of a story. If you've seen the list you will know that there are a few sex-related endeavours to cross off (PSA, I have never had sex). Now, I'm not totally innocent because I am 20 and I have stumbled across porn and fan fiction before, but… Continue reading Sex toys and scares